User blog comment:Cdc1998/Random Questions from Charles/@comment-1824274-20130804195943/@comment-24.189.193.11-20130808200922

"As for the sexual harrassment thing, that really sucks that it happens to girls, but it also happens to guys too. I know guys can be portrayed as immediately accepting sexual advances or sexual contact from a girl, but it can be VERY awkward and unwanted as well"

Awkward and unwanted are the key words. No, for women it is not "awkward", it is a legitmate fear of being dragged out into a dark alley, having your face shoved down to some disgusting concrete ground, and to have your clothes ripped off and something forced inside you that you do not want inside you. Then when you report it you are asked what type of clothes you were wearing, did you lead the man on? No, shut up, never, ever say ANYTHING like that again. A man's sexual harrassment is not nearly as bad as women.

I'm not saying it should be ignored, heavens no, but men really don't have that fear of women. Men aren't told to avoid women. Most men cannot be overpowered by women. However, it is a great injustice that men, after being sexually assulted, are basically told to man up and to get over it. But never, ever, compare the two again.

"Maybe we don't really complain about being harrassed as much because men aren't as sensitive as women are."

Did you just call women sensitive because they're in CONSTANT FEAR of forced into having sex with someone? When I say constant fear, I mean ALWAYS AND FOREVER. From the time they're nearly born they are told to be careful, do not trust men, never let yourself be alone. There is a REASON women and girls alike always go to the bathroom together.

" But it's worse for females because men can be very fucked up and their testosterone takes control of them"

nO. Even if you don't mean to, you're totally making excuses. You're saying "Well, men act that way because they're so pumped full of testosterone." Not that they're intelligent human beings and know right from wrong.

You sound like a grade A asshole. It's not that you're "wording yourself wrong", as that seems to be your excuse.

Also listen to Prof. Prof is smart.

-Zak